packaging a human being

if only we can package all the essential characteristics we look for in a person into one being..

what traits do you want him/her to have?

i secretly (ya right..) wish for the below..

intelligent, small eyed,straight black hair, speaks oh so fluent English,well mannered, a gentleman,romantic,patient, magnanimous, sensitive, super protective, Edward Cullen's traits haha

well, it is impossible to package a person..

you can't expect people to be perfect cause we can never be.

hence, we should be thankful with what we have.

as for my case, 

it is impossible to get someone who could fit the criterion above.

but honestly, physical/looks don't really matter to me 

(though i always fall for the small eyed)

something that i find hard to see here on my side of the world is a gentleman.

I don't know if it's the culture or the upbringing, 

but it is a really sad situation.

it is so hard to find a guy that would open the door/car door for you, 

carry your heavy bags, 

get a drink for you,

pull the chair for you..

how i wish we could brainwash these jerks..

i totally understand if culture or religion says that men are far superior than women.

sure.. as you wish..

but does that means, you can treat us like a piece of shit? 

oh c'mon ..

don't go amok when you see an Asian girl with a white guy.

ask yourself, why some girls prefer white guys?

they're GENTLEMENs. 

they treat women like precious gemstones.

guys guys guys,

pulling her chair, holding the door for her, does not make you a wimp.

it makes you super HAWT.

;)

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